1.  that in order to have love, you must allow someone to love you.

2.  that you can love someone that you don’t trust but to be IN love with someone you must trust them implicitly.

3.  that we both succeed and fail, neither are exclusive, nor are they final.

4.  that you can and should do what you love, it is the way to honesty and integrity in vocation.

5.  that running out onto the ledge for every situation wastes time, energy, and creates unnecessary stress. Poor reactions are learned behaviors so learn new ones already!